The director of California Institute of the Psychosomatic Researches, Doctor of Psychology
Judi Hefneru
Dear readers! My dear patients. I don’t take your time so often with the pages of newspapers. Basically, those are letters from the people with whom I had to work and make their lives a little better and easier than they were before. But there are people, whose stories don't get into the press because of one simple reason: they have nothing to be proud of, their life has not changed after meeting me. I did not want to communicate with some of them. The reason was that only God is able to help these people – apparently, he has his own plans for them which I don’t have to know. I know only one thing: these people have left God by THEMSELVES.
Recently, many people started asking me for help as they have problems with their children and husbands. Often the quarrels in families start for no reason, children are absolutely inadequate and seem strange. Wives and husbands grow apart, relatives and best friends become blood enemies. What is it? Is it a new epidemic? Is it the virus that kills the humanity in them?
No. It’s we, people, who become different, because in recent years we have been alienated from God more and more. The legislation about the sex education in schools is gradually coming to force. There is a promotion for "protection" family members from each other, as well as from other people, which states that you have to call the police in case of the slightest misunderstanding. Close people put each other in prison, sometimes because of small things, and sometimes just to drive out the spouse from their house to start a divorce, divide property and just run away to a lover or a mistress. How can we demand a good life if we demand so hard and long that God would leave us?
Let's recollect how it was. At first it was said that there is no place for prayers and time to read them in schools, and we agreed. Then someone added that the subject of study of religions should not be there, although each of them, despite the confession, says not to steal and not to kill and to love their loved ones. We agreed again.
Then there was Dr. Benjamin Spock (Benjamin Spock), who said that we, parents, have no right to punish our children, whatever they do and how they behave. Because we can kill them as individuals and prevent the process of their self-concept! By the way, that doctor’s son has committed suicide. Then everyone thought: he is an expert, he knows better than others what you need, and we agreed with the new rules again.
As a result, they stopped asking us about the new adopting laws – they were used to our usual answer "Yes!". Then we saw the legalization of gay marriage, the boys began handing out the condoms in public schools, the girls were promised the unimpeded opportunity to have abortions.
Along with their children, people watched television shows and series, full of murders and violence, often with strong language. There were campaigns for the legalization of drugs and the possibility of adoption children by LGBT people with raising them near ours. And THESE people were the first who had the privilege to adopt.
We listened to the broadcasts about the Satanists, songs about sex, advertising about rehabilitation centers for treatment of the drug addicts and the mentally ill just on the radio on the way to school. "It's a broadcast to improve the ranking, advertising, in one word – entertainment. And entertainment can’t affect us in a negative way, " – we said.
And people ask me after all this: why do modern children have no conscience, why do they suffer from neuroses and panic attacks? Why do they suddenly have autism, schizophrenia and other mental illnesses? How can it be that Russian and Ukrainian guys suddenly convert to Islam, grow a beard and run away to Syria to exterminate as many unbelievers as they can?
One of my patients asked me few months ago:
– Why has God forsaken me and my family?
- Because you do not let him in! - I replied.
– Why am I destroying everything around me: family, relationship with children? I don’t deserve this hell! - she exclaimed.
– You are on the track of Satan and Satan will not lead you to Heaven.
How many times have you condemned others, not noticing your own sins? How many times you laughed listening to "innocent" anecdotes about God? How many times have you put "LIKE" on obscene "post" on social networks and registered under a false name on various Dating sites of married people?
I understand that it is impossible to become a hermit in the modern world. But you can create an island of faith and prosperity in your family; you can start the morning with a smile and perception that you and your loved ones are the happiest people, because you love each other, you are together and you are healthy. And it depends on YOU.
I don't know who and how will understand my message, I just hope that many of you will recognize your own situation and try to change your life for the better in time. We live in difficult times and humanity has a lot of problems. It depends on us and on God how we will overcome it.
